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Fiance would rather beat off than have sex? My fiance of over 4 years and I have been living together over a year. We're both very sexual people and sex has always been great. Lately we've had sex multiple times a week. Last night i feel asleep on the couch with him & when I woke up he wasn't there. I went to the computer room & saw he was beating off, & he'd already closed the porn he was watching. I playfully asked what he was doing to which he replied, "Trying to have some privacy" (not mean or anything but still). I asked what he was watching & he said he wouldn't share his porn sites with me, which he's defended before (yet he has no prob buying xxx movies * watching them with me). I told him I was willing & asked wouldn't he rather have me than his hand & he said, "They're 2 different things, they feel different." So I left him alone & felt horrible that he'd rather jerk off than have sex w/me, which he's always enjoyed. Wtf is his problem? He always hides his porn as if it's gold & refuses to watch it w/me, yet he'll let me pick a site for both of us to watch. I can't find any porn sites or movies that he may have downloaded, he really doesn't want me seeing it. He says it's cuz it's hard to find good free sites & he doesn't wanna share, obviously bullsh*t. Maybe he's looking at something I would freak out about? He downloaded a tranny porn clip once cuz he was "bored and curious" & a couple vids of fat chicks, but he's attracted to bigger girls anyway, & that was a long time ago. I'm petite but 6 months pregnant which I didn't think was an issue til now. I feel ugly & unwanted, & I'm so offended by his choice that I'm going to refuse to be intimate w/him any time soon. What man in his right mind would rather masturbate than have amazing sex with a real p*ssy? He's not gay/bi & we both love each other very much, so why did he not want sex? We live together, why not have sex with me? He's usually the one who wants sex most of the time & I'm always willing, & sex is super amazing. What is his deal? Anyone else experience this? | That first guy is a jerk, ignore it.
But yea, I think that he's probably looking at something he doesn't think you'll accept. Or maybe he doesn't have the energy to have sex at certain times and just wants to get off. Try not to take it personally. If you two didn't have a good sex life then I'd be worried. | Fiance would rather beat off than have sex? Sry it's kinda long...
My fiance of over 4 years & I have been living together over a year. We're both very sexual people & sex has always been great. Lately we've had sex multiple times a week. Last night I feel asleep on the couch with him & when I woke up he wasn't there. I went to the computer room & saw he was beating off & he'd already closed the porn he was watching. I playfully asked what he was doing to which he replied, "Trying to have some privacy" (not mean or anything but still). I asked what he was watching & he said he wouldn't share his porn sites with me, which he's defended before (yet he has no prob buying xxx movies & watching them with me). I told him I was willing & asked wouldn't he rather have me than his hand & he said, "They're 2 different things, they feel different." So I left him alone & felt horrible that he'd rather jerk off than have sex w/me, which he's always enjoyed. Wtf is his problem? He always hides his porn as if it's gold & refuses to watch it w/me, yet he'll let me pick a site for both of us to watch. I can't find any porn sites or movies that he may have downloaded, he really doesn't want me seeing it. He says it's cuz it's hard to find good free sites & he doesn't wanna share, obviously bullsh*t. Maybe he's looking at something I would freak out about? He downloaded a tranny porn clip once cuz he was "bored and curious" & a couple vids of fat chicks, but he's attracted to bigger girls anyway, & that was a long time ago. I'm petite but 6 months pregnant which I didn't think was an issue til now. I feel ugly & unwanted, & I'm so offended by his choice that I'm going to refuse to be intimate w/him any time soon. What man in his right mind would rather masturbate than have amazing sex with a real p*ssy? He's not gay/bi & we both love each other very much, so why did he not want sex? We live together, why not have sex with me? He's usually the one who wants sex most of the time & I'm always willing, & sex is super amazing between us. I understand guys will be guys but turning me down & masturbating instead?? What is his deal? Anyone else experience this? | It's probably a combination of impending fatherhood and the simple fact that you caught him - he did think you were asleep. I'm not being offensive, but your hormones and emotions would be all over the place now as well (I've had 3 guys, I know those crazy hormones). The only thing that concerns me is that from reading this is that deep down you seem to think that there is something wrong (looking at something inappropriate) and you would know your fiance better than anyone. Maybe just wait for things to cool down and then discuss this with him, you should be able to if you are going to marry him. Sorry I can't be of more help. :)
Edit: Men do like to masturbate too, even if they are married. My husband and I can have it everyday and he still would (masturbate) that just what they do, its different and selfish (in a good way) and thats o.k. My hubby will have a shower, and if the doors locked, thats what he's doing, I know cause he told me). I don't care. He is still an amazing lover, and excellent husband. |
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